“Who’s the kid that just got baptized? I’ve never seen him before, but there’s a massive group of friends waiting to hug and congratulate him!”

“You don’t know him?” Graham asked, “He was in Hudson’s room at ski trip. That’s the weekend he decided to follow Jesus.”

Several months earlier during the high school ministry ski trip, hotel smoke alarms blasted across the quiet wintry night. Everyone in the resort filed out onto the snowy lawn after midnight in their ski coats and pjs – a couple hundred students from our youth group, along with every other guest in the hotel – disgruntled families and their sleepy kiddos. The fire marshal pin-pointed which room set off the alarm and reported it to Graham, who then summoned the four inhabitants. One of the four boys raised his eyes to Graham’s, “It was me. I have the vape.”

“Go wait for me in the stairwell by your room. Everyone else, get to bed.”

It took awhile for Graham and church staff to usher the groggy crowd back inside. Graham then trudged up the stairs and found the kid, head in hands, waiting. Graham sat down next to him, sighed, and joined him in silence for a couple of moments.

“Dude, you know what the consequence is for this. We were clear in the ski trip meetings, with you guys and your parents.”

“Yeah, I know,” the kid mumbled, head down. “Send me home on the first flight at my parents’ expense. I know.”

“That’s right. First flight home, no exceptions.”

Graham paused, “But I want you to know, on my way up here just now, another kid came to me and said, “Graham, send me home. Let him stay, I want to go home in his place.”

Wide eyes and instant tears turned into sobs, to the point where Graham gently took hold of this kid’s arm and said, “Whoa, it’s ok. That actually didn’t happen. But I want you to know that this is exactly what Jesus did for you.”

And four months later, on Easter Sunday, that kiddo proclaimed his faith for all to see.

And six years later, I’m still thinking about it.

Our new church, Fort Worth Bible Church, is currently going through the church’s core values, one week at a time. This past Sunday Graham’s sermon focused on “gracious.” And while I was thinking of that ski trip story, Graham shared the New Testament story of the woman caught in adultery. This event was likely engineered by the religious people of the day to put Jesus in a corner, to see which he would choose – truth or grace. To their surprise, he had the wisdom to choose both. Jesus paused, kneeled and wrote in the sand, and responded, “He who is without sin cast the first stone.”

Truth + grace.

There’s a simple metaphor passed along on social media:

You’re holding a cup of coffee and someone accidentally bumps into you, causing it to spill everywhere.
Why did you spill the coffee?
“Because someone bumped into me.”
Wrong answer.
You spilled the coffee because there was coffee in your cup. If there had been tea in the cup, you would have spilled tea.
Whatever is inside the cup is what will spill out.
So, when life shakes you up, whatever is inside you will come out.
Back to the ski trip – Corbin and I have helped with these trips in the past, and they’re high octane – tons of energy, tons of kids, tons of meals, a few injuries, all the fun and all the hard. I’m picturing Graham’s lanky frame skipping two steps at a time up that stairwell in the middle of the night, exhausted, embarrassed, frustrated. And yet the first words out of his mouth to a kid who deserved to be sent home was the gospel truth + grace.
The ski trip instance is not the only time I’ve seen Graham, when bumped, spill out grace. I could describe several astounding “gospel responses” from Graham with my family. His leadership and leaning in is the primary reason Corbin and I decided to follow him to Fort Worth Bible Church. Graham is young, he has not yet raised teenagers (unless you count the hundreds he shepherded during a decade of youth ministry), he makes mistakes. He is a sinner. But he is among the hardest workers I know and when bumped, he spills out the gospel. We can follow a pastor like that.
It’s critical to have a pastor who overflows with grace + truth. And praise God we have several pastor-friends in Fort Worth and beyond who do just that. But – how do WE, when bumped, overflow with the gospel? This cannot be a pastor-only quality. This is a daily need for us to be reminded of how much we’ve been given, which we do not deserve, which allows us to respond when bumped. A daily need in our marriages, in parenting, our friendships, our homes, in the workplace. How do we get to where we spill grace + truth?

And before I go any further, what exactly is the gospel??

  1. The glory of God
  2. My sin against God
  3. God’s work on my behalf through his son, Jesus
  4. My salvation – through Jesus

Here are a couple of resources I’ve found to be laser-focused on helping me preach the gospel to myself everyday:

A Gospel Primer, Milton Vincent

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My friend Krista gave this to me several years ago, and this tiny books pops a huge gospel punch: 31 short daily devotionals that rehearse Gospel truths.

“God did not give us His gospel just so we could embrace it and be converted. He offers it to us every day as a gift that keeps on giving to us everything we need for life and godliness.”  – from the Introduction

Another tip from Krista – this is a perfect travel companion for short trips when traveling light. Brief daily devotionals, with scripture references already printed out below each writing, so you’re taking in the gospel reminders and actual Scripture.

You won’t want to miss the author’s personal story, “Part IV, Surprised by the Gospel ~ The story behind the Primer” at the end of the book (pg 89).

Everyday Gospel Bible – Paul Tripp

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If you’ve read anything by Tripp, you know he focuses almost exclusively on the gospel. His daily devotional, New Morning Mercies, is  like holding up a mirror and being reminded daily of our need for Jesus while we’ve been given the gift of Jesus. Reading New Morning Mercies for a handful of years opened my eyes to just how much I need a daily reset and reminder of how much I’ve been forgiven and given through Jesus.

Tripp just published this new Bible devotional, Everyday Gospel Bible. It’s been out about a month, so I’m only a few weeks in. In addition to an audio version, you’ve got a couple of options:

  • stand-alone devotional book to use alongside your Bible
  • “one-stop-shop” Bible with Tripps’ devos following each passage.

I am so enjoying the second option, all-in-one, because it allows me to have everything in one book, whether reading at home or traveling. Buying a Bible is a pretty personal decision, and I’ve found renewed joy when starting a new, never-before-underlined Bible.

One of the things Graham mentioned last Sunday, and that Paul Tripp often repeats, is that when we recognize how much we’ve been forgiven, we forgive much. Sounds kind of familiar…

We love, because He first loved us. 1 Jn 4.19

Heavenly Father, may we recognize the gift of your Son. That while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. And may truth + grace bump out of us even when we don’t feel like we have the strength or wisdom to offer it. THAT, Lord, is amazing grace!